“You may know me. I'm one of the 25 best Pickup Artists in the World, apparently. But I have to confess something: I am NOTHING compared to Hristiyan. See, I've been in this game for a while. I started hanging with "naturals" when I was 12, and kept learning that way till I was 30, when I discovered DYD. Since then, I've worked with and made friends with the very best teachers and ladies men in the community. I know everyone, and everything. But I never felt the need to let someone ELSE teach me (even in the one class I did take, I ended up doing more teaching than learning).

That all changed the weekend that I decided to take Hristiyan's Innergame and Daygame Bootcamp. Hristiyan is not only my friend and my co-worker at LVO3, he's also, in a lot of ways, a mentor to me. As long as I've known him, I've marvelled at his ability to walk into a room, any room, and magnetcially draw the finest women to him with what looks like no effort. Now, I'm good at this stuff. DAMN good. But for me it's always work. I'm always putting something in. And what he did was so effortless, and it worked everywhere, on everyone. To be honest, I knew that I had to drop my ego and let him teach me, or we woudn't be able to hang out as buds anymore cos he'd keep stealing all the girls. :)

So I did it.

I wish I could tell you in full what the whole weekend was like, but there's one moment that I feel sums it up. See, me and just a small group of students spent 2 full days getting pushed and prodded and opened up and rebuilt by Hristiyan and his coaches. They found every weakness we had been hiding, pulled it out and replaced it with strength. They found why we didn't feel confident and put us through real exercises (not lectures) that built our confidence and kept it building. They pushed our limits of how great we thought we could be... and then it was time to test it with the single most challenging exercise I've ever done.

Hristiyan put his beautiful female assistant on the couch. He turned to me, and gave me a very simple directive.

"Walk over to her, sit down, and seduce her without words. No talking. You breathe, move, look, and feel the seduction."

As soon as he said this to me, I was scared and nervous as F*&^. How the hell was I supposed to do that? Then he whispered something to me, and it was like a light opening up in the clouds. I instantly understood what it was he did everytime he went out and women flocked to him like puppies who hear the word "cookie." He never needed to say anything, becuase every single move, breath, and look he sent out communicated seduction stronger than words ever could. And he had been teaching us this all weekend in all the exercises we'd done on breathing, and holding sensual eye contact, creating eye contact, and especially on touching women like a lover.

What he taught us was so simple, but so damn hard to get to... until we did the work. He taught us how to look at a woman as a lover from the very first second. And the trick to that is... if you look at her as a Lover, she looks at YOU as a Lover. No need for "escalation," or "sexually charged conversation." I looked at this beautiful woman on the couch across from me (who I'd wanted to seduce from the first moment she came into the class, but was scared, cos she was just too hot, too sexy, too out of my league), and realized that for the first time I could drop all my bullshit, all my tricks, all the pickup crap stuffed in my brain that had gotten me the success that only left me feeling like a fraud, and even more, drop all the insecurity I'd carried around since I was a geeky, skinny, nerdy teenager who couldn't get a date and couldn't figure out why it was so easy for everyone else. I dropped it all, because Hristiyan taught me the exact steps on how to really BE with a woman completely so she knows that you are the Lover she's been looking for.

I sat down. I smiled just a bit, and simply looked at her. I looked at her from the first second like i would look at a Lover in my sheets, laying back calm, sweat drying in the cool air, our breath merging as it slows. I didn't have to fake anything, and I didn't have to say anything. I could see her in my arms, taste her lips on mine, and the pure pleasure of that feeling was lighting me up and radiating to her. She got a little uncomfortable. "Aren't you going to say anything?" she asked. I nodded no, and kept looking. I breathed, deeper, slower. And I noticed she started to breathe slower and deeper with me, like magic. She kept asking questions, but they got fewer and fewer. She had started at the beginning trying to break her eyes away, but as I stayed there, her eyes stayed right with me. We had no words, and communicated far deeper and sexier than I ever could by talking. Finally, I reached over to her, slowly, slowly. I looked down for a second, then looked back up as I gently took her hand in mine. She twined her fingers around mine, and in that moment the entire world disappeared. Everyting went black and silent but for me and her in this moment, and I could feel the sexual energy pulsing from my body, into hers, and back again in a circuit. Our eyes locked and it seemed our bodies started to draw in closer like magnets, closer... closer... closer....

"OK, I think that's good for now!" Hristiyan said, and put his hands on my shoulders to pull me back gently. There was a big smile on his face. I looked around the room, and there was nothing but stunned looks and smiles on the faces of everyone, the students, the coaches, the other female assistant. They all felt it, and honestly, everyone looked pretty disappointed that they didn't get to see the kiss. I looked at the girl I had been with, and she looked pretty damn disappointed too. :)

It was like a movie. Straight up Clooney shit. And that's what I got from working with Hristiyan and his gift of teaching. Every moment with a woman, from the first second you see her through your first words, to the first kiss, till you lay her in your bed and take her to ecstacy, every moment is like a movie for her when you know what to do. You create the seduction and the sexual tension not with lines or routines or the other stuff that only gets in the way, but with everything that comes from inside. You build it with an expert who shows you how, and then it's yours forever.

When he took us out that day, I counted more women staring at me, on the street, in the stores, hell, even on the train, than ever before. I didn't have to say anything to them. I didn't have to prove how sexy I was, because thanks to Hristiyan, I was showing it every moment.

If you've seen my latest "hidden cam" video and wondered just how the hell I transformed from a dancing monkey (a good one), to a man who is just totally calm, confident, and sexual with women without seeming to even try, well, this is your answer. I learned it from Hristiyan. Take a look.

I know what you are thinking. I work with Hristiyan. He's part of my company. I coach with him at our events, and if I say good things about him, that's good for me and for business. If I say he's the best, it's good for me. And you've got a point.

But it's still the Truth.

“ Hrisityan's new company addresses an area of the pickup community that truly hasn't been unlocked yet. It seems that 99% of the other coaching out there looks at the masculine side of attracting the female without allowing oneself to embrace the feminine side that completes the attraction and creates longevity. What I've learned is that it's easy to attract a female and any workshop or pickup company can easily accomplish this. But life is short and unfortunately so are a lot of relationships. If you are someone that wants to stack a bunch of empty one-night stands, then this workshop might not be for you.

“ My main goal for this workshop was to get more in touch with my emotions and my masculine core, to become more comfortable with my sexuality, to learn how to be vulnerable yet strong, and to be more in my body rather than in my head. Needless to say, the workshop met my expectations and then some. It just blew my mind and my whole reality wide open.

Hristiyan's podclasses will give you the best idea of what this workshop is all about. Hristiyan, Jennifer, and Marcie ran a number of different exercises with us throughout the weekend, from helping us figure out our personal mission in life to getting more in our bodies and being more sexual to soul-gazing and forming deep emotional connections through eye contact alone. If you think it's impossible to form a solid connection with somebody without saying anything, just through touch, eye contact, and body language, then this will change your reality too.

If you plan on taking this workshop, my biggest piece of advice to you is to just give it your all and to not hold back, because you will get as much out of the workshop as you put into it. Hristiyan asked us all on the first night, on a scale of 1 to 10, how hard we wanted to be pushed over the course of the weekend. Every guy there, myself included, told him "10" and that's what we got. It was incredible to watch how much we had all changed by the time Sunday night rolled around. I almost didn't want the workshop to end, because I was getting so much out of every day and every exercise and just having an amazing time. Best of all, the coaches gave each of us personalized feedback to help us figure out where we should go from here in order to keep improving.